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Where is the line drawn between "acting professional" and having fun at work?

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    Depends on your work place. Intention and perception are the only two pieces that matter when making this decision. If the activity is done with positive work appropriate intent, and people perceive it positively. All good. If its perceived poorly, its not professional. Simple as that. Perception is everything.

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    That's difficult to determine especially since ever work place has it's own culture. Your behavior should be held to be on a more professional level when at work.

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    If you have to ask, it would be crossing the line.

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    Depends completely on the workplace. Joking around near clients in a company that serves the needy or ill would be inappropriate, IMO.

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    Professionals have fun too. Crossing the line into the unacceptable territory is the same at work as it is in public or social settings in general. Do not make jokes in the middle of a crisis, or customer rant. Be sure to smile and focus on the task at hand, then use light humor if it is in order. Social skills are the foundation for good workplace skills. Follow the rules, be yourself, and common sense will take the lead in interaction in the office. Your boss sets the scene, you act within the walls of the stage.

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    As long as the behavior isn't unsafe & the jokes are welcome then it is fine. The problem is the unwanted contact and frequent sexist, sexual nature of the "jokes." Same with the constant racist & bigoted comments, not a day goes by that I don't hear something about the gays or non-whites referred to in a very negative manner. Employees and customers are openly berated & referred to by pejorative terms.

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    You're not allowed to 'have fun' at work. If it upsets a customer, you've gone too far.

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    Depends on how personal your relationship has become with the coworker involved.

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    There is no line drawn at the genesis I work at. No professionalism either. Worst place I’ve ever worked!! Back biting, people always calling off. Fighting, arguing!! I hate my job and as soon as I can find a different job with morals and real caring values; I’m gone

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    I think there are a few variables that go into the judgment. Personally I have a hard time getting people to judge me as professional because I don't try very hard to keep a "professional" appearance or manner or qualifications. I do try to keep my job performance at a good level, but that is not enough (or else I also make enough mistakes that it's not actually at a good level!) People who are very good at acting professional are very careful all the time so that when they are "having fun" it's only as part of their professional demeanor. Some of it is based on masculinity and strength I think. Even for adults, if a person in the room is stronger and bigger and more confident and has a deeper voice, then it's just easier for that person to be perceived as professional. They just have to keep calm. That seems intuitively true. It may be the case that acting like an adult and not getting into childish emotions and responses and behaviors and expressions is really what will help most.

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    The line of professionalism is crossed with touching and cursing and nasty low blow criticisms - if these are not involved - then it's fun at work, in general.

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    fun is better left for socializing after work

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    Not offending anyone

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    The line is drawn between attorneys and staff. Attorneys can have fun at work, be noisy. Staff must act professionally at all times. Any other behavior is discouraged.

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    At my work, we have a lot of fun. Many of us work from home now but when we get to meet up in the office, it's just a big fun day of hugs and catching up and laughs and high fives etc. We get scolded by the other departments sometimes for being too loud (we're the creative department) but they also tell us they love having our energy so we just try to find a balance. I think it's good to talk about your hobbies, things you enjoy, but NEVER expect anyone else to talk about themselves. Some folks just don't want to get real personal at work and that's ok. Some of us follow eachother on Instagram, some not. It's not required for everyone to be friends. Also, negativity can be very unprofessional. Constantly complaining about home life or health or work or whatever. Being negative too much about other people you work with is also not a good idea. Keep it light, keep it kind. Cultivate those good vibes and you'll find folks around you doing the same (usually).

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    When work starts lacking or not getting done

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    No personal attacks.

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    You can have fun and still be professional in your responsibilities.

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    As soon as any team member calls it out as a waste of time.

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    Pass

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    Plenty of fun is tolerated in the workplace environment. Sometimes this gets unprofessional, but not too bad.

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    never

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    Being professional means being on your best behavior. You can have fun at work at appropriate times, but you still have to maintain a certain amount of decorum and restraint. Fun at work is going to be expressed differently than fun with your friends on a Friday night.

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    Having fun at others’ expense, having fun at the expense of work that needs attention

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    Don't harass, discriminate, or forget common sense

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    Taking people's personal items like cell phones and using them as a joke texting your contacts.

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    If you're having fun, it's not work anymore. You can be productive working or you can be more productive having fun. I prefer the latter. Do what makes you happy.

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    It really depends on the workplace. Generally, we must assess whom our "clients" are - both externally and internally - and then be our most professional with them.

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    Both are able to be done together

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    When a worker stops doing the job right and starts goofing off. Low performance

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    Where the "fun" makes someone else uncomfortable.

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    Do your job correctly and you can still have fun.

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    This is too tough of a question to answer. It depends on each companies culture, as well as if there are going to be any clients in the office, how much is it disrupting others from working, if it's illegal, or if it's just plain childish.

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    Almost everyone acts professionally but you can have fun all the time that you want but is not the pervasive attitude.

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    If you don’t have fun at work then you don’t like what you do

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    Basically respect. If someone is upset or trying to concentrate, tone it down. As long as it is fun for everyone, work is getting done and customers are taken care of, it's okay

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    I am the wrong person to be asking this to

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    You cant get goofy. Fun is good but work needs to get done.

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    When speaking with or around supervisors or administrators, take your cues from them. Often times, I find that they will relax, laugh at things, sit and 'shoot the breeze' for a few minutes with their subordinates. It doesn't feel out of place to relax and have fun when you won't feel sorry for it later. Around peers, it will vary depending on their personalities. Some are strict and adamant about things, while others are at-ease and open around others. By letting the group set the mood, and trying to be open to clues about when the fun is over and it's time to be serious, we can have a bit of both. And I question the use of "acting professional". There are times when serving the public, working with people or agencies from outside our organization, etc. when we should "be professional", not just act like it. It's about the attitude.

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    Depends upon the setting. If you are with people you are with all the time, you can be a little more loose. But if you are with customers, management, or people who don't know you very well, hold off until they get to know you a little better. And don't EVER, EVER get drunk at a work function, no matter how much free booze is flowing.

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    Can you do it in front of the big boss? No, then don’t

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    Depends on the setting but having a good time helps when doing tough jobs. When the work slows down or doesn’t get completed because of a good time, that’s where the line is.

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    If you wonder if something is inappropriate... it is

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    Keep it g rated. Plain and simple.

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    ACTING is the line.

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    Not sure how to define it. I know it when I see it though.

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    When “having fun” affects the company’s bottom line and employees performance, that is when “acting professional” demands precedence.

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    Apparently, nowhere. I thought I knew, but I don't it seems. My version is much stricter than what I seem to see.

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    Offending someone or making a bad impression you later regret

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    interruptions of staff on phone with customers! work hard & play hard but a time& place for both!

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    I don’t think there need to be one. It’s just that you need to adapt to your environment for example you won’t act the same in banking than in IT. Same with in front of customers compared to back office jobs

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    You should be able to have fun at work without crossing the line.

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    In today's culture there is very little fun to be had at work. It is better to leave fun out of the work place if you don't want to risk getting fired.

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    Depends on the company / culture.

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    First you must be sensitive to the other individuals you work with. A small amount of joking my be determined to be excessive by certain highly conservative, or uptight individuals or a tight fisted driven boss. Once you determine the general level that may be required, you must then carefully pick your timing. It is best to avoid making a joke for instance at the peak of a serious business discussion in most cases. However, a joke in some tense situations helps people to relax and may enhance communication. Horse play or practical jokes at the expense of another is unacceptable in most circumstances. Understanding your level in the organization is also very important. If you are a lower staff level and crack a joke in the middle of a meeting with the CEO, you may be inviting trouble. The bottom line, be very sensitive to those round you and carefully monitor reactions as you slowly establish a low level of merriment while absolutely maintaining productivity and focus on your tasks.