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What is the best way to deal with a problem coworker?

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    Confront and come along side and see if the problem or issues can be handled between the two parties or seek a 3rd party.

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    Again, as always, realistically it depends on the "problem" at hand. But generally, they need discipline. If they will not change for the sake of the company or other workers, IF it is a bad enough problem that they are causing, then a "problem coworker" is not a productive coworker, likely causing the company or others precious time/money. Then, if proper discipline is not working, get rid of them (fire them). Not all actions should end this way. Different situations call for different solutions. I'm only addressing some of the worse case scenarios.

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    First understand what they are saying. Keep yourself in their position if everything is still seems wrong to you then how you could solve that problem

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    talk to them about what you except give them a job away from everyone else if that doesnt work get rid of them

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    do not threaten them to their face or let them know your plan, but get with someone in authority, and let them know. Get them to observe them somehow when they think they are not around. Catch them in the act.

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    Find your boss, tell him about it and let him do what best.

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    Human resources or quit interacting with the difficult coworker.

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    First, try talking to them to resolve the issue. If that doesn't work distance yourself from them and let your immediate supervisor know the reason for your actions.

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    Channel their talents

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    Let them politely know what is going on that you don't like and take them to lunch.

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    Do not deal with a problem coworker!

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    Directly discuss your issues with them (we are adults, after all). Failing that, move up your chain of command.

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    Be as professional as possible and honest about the issue. If you can speak to them and there is still a problem know that they are just a colleague and not your friend.

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    By direct communication and most of all empathy. Remember haters are cheerleaders that don’t know it yet

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    Try to talk it out with the coworker!!!

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    Talk to hr or a manager

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    Clear communication. Observe how to develop coworker and create opportunities for success in both yourself and your coworker.

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    Take it to management

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    it takes a village

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    Try to have a civil conversation with the coworker. If this does not work address the problems with your supervisor.

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    Ask if they're ok and if there's anything on their mind. Try to find underlying issues.

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    Kill em with kindness

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    Do not be carried away by emotions, control your attitude, watch your language, do your work ad company regulations will help.

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    What do you perceive as their problem and how does it impact you?

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    Approach them in a professional manner.

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    Have them held accountable and report any violations immediately

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    Direct communication while pulling in other leadership assistance so that it’s not a 1-1 conflict rather an agreed upon learning opportunity

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    Patience and diplomacy. Don't lose your temper.

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    depends on the person. could be heart to heart, could be talk to his boss

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    1) Understand him fully and console him, 2) Don't spread it throughout,

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    By being friendly but not too friendly, limiting contact, keeping your distance, doing your job and minding your own business. Definitely have to set boundaries with them.

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    Have a direct conversation

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    Politeness. Again be nice even when it's difficult

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    Isolate and/or insulate problem coworker from rest of the staff, then coach, teach, and train. Restrict hours, apply progressive discipline, and reintroduce to the rest of the team. Repeat as needed.

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    Talk to them straight and also their manager.

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    Talk, document, get upper mgmt. help.

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    Address the issue head on. Document the discussion and continue to do so until the issue is resolved.

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    Deal with it head on. Talk to them and find the problem

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    Talk to the coworker but do not participate in the bad vibes they are putting out.

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    Just ignore do your work

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    Talking to them

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    Normally I would say to first speak to them personally with your boss or manager present. If that doesn't solve the situation, same again with HR. In current place of employment I would just remain silent & do nothing because speaking about or letting anyone know will only get me in trouble, threatened & let the problematic coworker feel even more emboldened to daily personal attacks, threats, berating & belittling me in front of other coworkers because they know they will not be reprimanded & if I say anything more about it I will be in trouble, not them.

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    Document everything in writing.

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    talk your problems out

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    Talk to them. If that doesn't work, take it to management.

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    I have no idea. This has always worked out badly for me no matter what I did.

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    Talk to them and explain yourself but also listen to them. Both parties need to adapt.

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    Try to solve problem directly with him.

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    While they are in the act address them right there because people will try you and make you out to be the problem when it’s them

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    Letting that coworker know. And providing an opportunity for the co worker to correct the dealing of the problem.

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    Reach out to them, ask them if you can help.

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    Clear communication if your expectations and ramifications of your not being able to work out your differences in a positive manner

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    Not possible at LIDL because it’s not seen as an issue, things are overlooked and deemed that the person complainting is the initial problem

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    Talk it out. Talk it over. Discuss. Conversation. Conversation. Conversation.

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    try to be direct and diplomatic at the same time. eventually have an adult conversation that they are causing issues and they were causing issues and this might not be a great fit for them

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    Direct conversation in private with a mediator present.

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    Seek to understand their point of view before providing a solution.

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    Communication and trying to help the coworker.

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    Talk to them about the problem without negativity but directness. If that doesn't work approach a supervisor, then, higher up...

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    Patients, honesty and also providing solutions.

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    Be polite and go to a superior

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    Document everything and review with the appropriate chain of command.

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    Communicate situation, task, result & alternative task, alternative result. Encourage giving and soliciting feedback.