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Is there a “best” way to fire someone?

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    No but all I would do is help them understand the reasons and help coach them for the next step.

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    Handle it with tact. Be respectful, empathetic and give your employee a brief and well thought out explanation. Keep it short. Do not make it personal. Getting fired shouldn't come as a surprise to the employee. You should give them a chance to either improve or leave on their own. Sometimes the employee will realize that the job is not a good fit and will quit. Get the paperwork together beforehand. Do not let others now you're firing the employee. Give them the opportunity to empty out their desk after hours or during the weekend. Have someone from hr their with them to collect IDs, keys, laptops, etc. Be smart. Think it through. Don't get emotional or make impulsive decisions.

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    Personally, I would say yes, depending on the situation at hand. If one is caught breaking the law, such as using illegal drugs on the job, or threatens to cause someone harm, or does someone harm w/o self-defense or probable cause for instance, then perhaps they should be fired immediately. However, if the situation is, say a worker has been warned several times of a certain, but not so-severe behavior that is otherwise unacceptable, such as harassing fellow workers or something, and there is no sign of them willing to change that behavior, then the "last call" perhaps should be, " We want you and any of your personal belongings out of here by the end of your shift (or end of the week), because you are fired. (Such n such is your last day). These are only a couple of endless examples of possible differences that may be used to fire someone.

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    Yes. It depends on who and why the termination is necessary, but I believe being open, honest, and unemotional is the best way to go about it. When you have to fire someone they should know exactly why and you should be able to tell them. It's also important to make sure they hear it from you, not in the form of gossip around the office.

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    Yes. The person being fired (for poor performance) should not be surprised because s/he would have been involved in a process of documented discussions and maybe even entered into a performance improvement plan, which in our shop is not ‘just a way to get people out’, but is used to help provide a greater level of attention and support to improve.

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    tell them it just didnt work out and give them a letter to help them find new work

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    There is no best way to fire someone. The best way to let someone go I found is to praise them, but let them know they were not what you need right now. Encourage them to seek something they are more qualified for. Do not fight them for unemployment benefits if they are not that bad. If they are and become contentious then they do not need to be working there anyhow. call security.

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    Nope. When you have to do that, it's nothing short of sad.

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    In person on a pay day.

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    Follow the established procedure of your HR structure. (HINT: build a procedure if one is not already in place, and build it BEFORE you need it -- and then run it by your legal team). The actual steps required by a "good" firing procedure vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction (state to state, country to country, etc.). At minimum the cause should be identified OR reference made to any "at will" nature -- which should have already been made clear in any employment contract or contractor agreement for locations where applicable. As far as anything else: to the extent possible under law, treat the person being dismissed as YOU would like to be treated under the same circumstances.

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    Send their resume to a job recruiter a couple weeks in advance

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    Directly and as straight forwardly as possible. While remaining compassionate and understanding the firing of someone results in.

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    Yes, be straightforward but compassionate.

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    If you make someone's life so miserable in the workplace, you won't have to fire them. They will quit. Will not have to pay workmanship comp.

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    Be straight and don't try to sugar coat it.

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    Yes. Always be as polite as possible and offer them a send off package if the employee is innocent.

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    I think being honest with the individual and letting them know why it they are being fired.

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    Sure, if you've been documenting and communicating with employee over time about the issues, then firing them after awhile is just the practical and reasonable final step.

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    I would say when an employee needs to be terminated it should never come out of left field. Unless it is for extreme reasons such as inappropriate behavior or unbecoming conduct, employees should be updated about their job performance. When an under performing employee has be given a number of chances to speak up, ask for help or been offered opportunities to improve job performance and they decline to show improvement it is then time to let them go. The "best" way to do this is to clearly is to lay out to the employee that your company may not be the best fit for them and that based on consistent under performance, it's best they find a company that is better suited to what their work performance is. Don't make it personal, it's about professional compatibility.

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    With respect, dignity and maintaining a calm but firm disposition.

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    Tuesday morning (demonstrative ) at the beginning of the pay cycle..so the employee knows they won't leave empty handedand has a full week to look at other options. Be direct. Clear SPECIFIC . why you hired and why they now must go.

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    Dry tinder works best.

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    In a very delicate way. Professionalism

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    Keep it civil and in good taste. Give clear examples of why they are being fired and give them a paper trail so they can take follow up actions; i.e. apply for UCB and other financial assistance.

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    Personally, firing someone is always rough. In my experience I believe that "firing" someone comes with first, not doing it in public. Make sure to take the employee aside and into a private setting that way it is more respectful to the employee to not be "called out" in front of the company and possible clients. Other than that making it clear the reason why they're being dismissed, and ensuring that (depending on the situation) will allow them to reference you in their resume for another job - or not, if they are being let go for non-ethical reasons. But, being that every company is different and there is a full range of employees and what they have to do within the company.

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    To give them the truth and if that involves their performance give them good feedback on how to improve

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    Make HR do it.

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    There is never a “best” way in my opinion due to you never know how the person being fired will react. Do it privately in an office away from co-workers and never in front of others unless it can not be avoided.

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    No. Each circumstance is unique and termination needs to be relevant, legal and specific so employee can have some closure.

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    Of course. “ it has become obvious that this position is not working out for you or for us, we feel that we are better served to move on from this point” ....then wrap up pay, insurance etc .. done

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    Most situations are case specific.

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    Yes, the best way to fire someone is to tell them that they're being let go for whatever reason, then help them find a new job.

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    No the direct approach works.

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    Don't use the word fire. It is always hard. Be very clear and direct about the reason. Be as considerate as possible without compromising the directness.

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    With compassion and honesty

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    In person in private.

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    Privately. Compassionately. Not on a Friday or end of day. Let them have their dignity.

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    Yes. Be honest with feedback that comes from truth intended to help the person learn and grow, and then take action.

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    Yeah private... not public like they did around us

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    No. But you're fired works

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    Do the threes. Make sure all write up are consecutive and show consecutive poor performance. Make sure you have three write ups within a reasonable amount of time and that it shows consistent poor performance. The more documentation you have the better off you are. If attendance issues have at least three dates per write up that shows poor attendance. Having three for three write ups is like three strikes your out. This strategy keeps your strength in letting a person go. The more documentation the better. Details are everything. Don't leave any guess work or here-say into the mix.

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    I think that there is. Be respectful and sincere about reasons, no need to add sadism, indifference or apathy to such sad moment. Assume full accountability for the decission no matter the source, you are getting paid for that. If it is possible, try to help the person you are firing. Ask. And remain sincere if you cannot help. Excuses are offensive in this moment. Look in the eye all the time. Listen. If I am fired, I should prefer this way.

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    put that someone in an uncomfortable place. but usually i'll try to put her/him in many places before final fire comes out

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    I think as long as you remove any negative emotion and approach with tactical empathy but with factual backing on why this person is not performing at the level necessary its less personal and more about job specifics and delivery.

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    Use empathy, you could be next.

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    Yes just tell them and get it over with.

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    There is a best way, but it is not one sizes fits all. It varies according to the circumstances, level of information, and experience.

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    If it's something grievous, then it should not be unexpected. If someone can be coached or saved -- work out a several month program that is realistic, otherwise, let them know what's on the horizon.

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    Respect them and make sure you are giving a clear reason. Be honest but as courteous as possible.

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    I don't know about a "best" way. But I can say it's important to be honest and give feedback that can serve the person for the future. And don't forget to recognize also the good things.

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    Yes, let them know they are no longer producing and or their unprofessional behavirour will no longer ber tolerated

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    The best way is to have gone through they proper channels as far a the number of warnings the employee is supposed to get based on your company's employee handbook. Never fire someone unless you go through the process of warnings and other paperwork write-ups to support your reasoning. If you do this for all your employees, no one will be discriminated against because they will all have gone through the same channels with opportunity to recify. Unless a major violation occurs that is terminatable for one offence, make sure to treat each employee identical to every other.

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    If you've offered them a reasonable number of opportunities to improve, they should see what's coming. Providing clear information on what they did wrong and why they are being fired is the best policy. Even if they don't appreciate it in the moment, it may be the wake up call they need.

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    Offer severance: It says, "This is not personal, and I know this is hard on you. We are sorry we hired a bad fit, maybe this will help soften the blow (but do go away)."

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    I think what to say depends on the actual reason they're getting let go. If they are under performing, I think saying exactly that is not only honest, but a [harsh] learning experience for that specific employee. If they are not a culture fit or simply not working out for some reason, I think it's best to honestly express that too but phrase it as constructively as possible.

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    Every situation is different...but always try to be polite, cordial, and respectful.

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    Fired is different from laid off. A laid-off worker should recieve severence based on years of service, etc. If someone is not doing their job or committing other infractions just telling them they are fired seem adequate.

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    They track everything, file reports, then manager/others will meet & tell the person they've been let go. It's ad hoc. Pretty silent removal process

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    It is okay to take someone's job, but it is not okay to take their dignity. In order to ensure that you preserve the latter, never, ever surprise fire someone. You should set clear, realistic expectations and goals with each member of your team. Throughout the process, you do everything you possibly can as a leader to help them hit their goals. If they aren't a good fit for the position, you can see where their strengths may be best utilized. If there is no fit for them at the company, which can often be the case at a startup, you need to consistently communicate the fact that they aren't meeting expectations, both verbally and in writing and work on a transition plan for them out of the company. In the transition, be kind, generous and thoughtful. In the end, you were the one that hired them, so own it and don't place it all on them. Help them transition well and with dignity.

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    If it’s deserved straight forward

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    be kind but tell them truthfully why they are being fired so they can learn from the experience.

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    Upfront and explain the reason for firing clearly.

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    You should say, "I'm gonna have to let you go." Tell them to keep the rules and guidelines in mind.

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    No. But it can be done with kindness and respect. Give the reasons they are being let go. If possible, document those reasons and remind them of discussions requiring improvement. If possible, give severance pay and remind them that benefits will end at the end of the current month (if applicable). If possible, offer a referral or recommendation if requested.

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    Yes, well established procedures. Written an verbal sensitivity, just state the facts and do not put down or condemn the person being fired.

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    Be kind, give them severance.

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    No, it will always be a problem. Just try to do it in a nonjudgmental way.

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    The way I’ve done it in the past is to sit down with someone, explain the situation, let them get as angry as they want and say what they need to, then try to help them afterwards with getting any benefits due to them.

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    Quit your own job and organize a labor union at your next workplace instead.

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    Have their union rep present and another manager. Have their final paycheck ready and unemployment pamphlet. Briefly summarize why they are terminated, no more than 2 sentences. Take their ID and any other company issued material. Escort Then off the company property. If u have done your job correctly and documented along the way, the termination should not be a surprise.

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    Yes, respectfully! Explain why they are being fired (give examples) - don't be vague. Give room for the employee to ask questions, show empathy.

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    Tell that s/he should look for another job and give them at least a couple of weeks in order to do that. Tell why you are letting that person go and that it was not a good fit here. Keep it professional and cordial.

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    Tell him the truth, which shall be no surprise if correct management tools were being used. And treat the person with respect and no humiliation. Understand that the fired one is human being with feelings, family and needs.

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    Only on basis on performance

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    With a direct conversation;

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    take them to your office and tell them why you are firing them

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    Discuss the reasons that the person is going to be fired, initiate their account deletion at the beginning of the meeting, tell them why they are being fired, whether it be performance, downsizing, or so on genuinely, let them ask any questions they have, and either let them go to say goodbye to their coworkers or leave for the day, or get security and immediately delete their accounts if they become agitated.

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    Honestly and straightforward. Nothing is worse than keeping someone suspended with vague comments and meetings about their status. Being upfront about feedback, both good and bad - because frankly there is usually good - will help them understand why you are taking this step. If it is not an immediate fire, giving someone a week or two also really does help the transition.

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    Yes, be respectful and honest but not cruel.

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    There’s no easy way in firing someone. Of course we want to employ everyone forever it’s just not practical.

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    Call them at home

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    Yes, be truthful and present metrics supporting the decision.

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    In the least embarrassing way possible.

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    Be clear about the reasons to fire the employee

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    Be honest and give constructive criticism

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    Calmly and discreetly.

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    Be honest, forthright & if they were good workers, give them notice & perhaps severance.

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    Set performance expectations to push someone’s limits, but not unreasonable. If they can’t hit the goals within 2-4 weeks, then let them go.

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    Going through a process of verbal warning, a first written warning a second warning then the final step of termination while you are offering and allowing 30-60 days in between each warning for improvement and growth.

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    Yes, by treating the person with dignity and respect and in the same manner that you would want to be treated were the roles reversed. Explain directly what is happening and why. Be forthcoming. Be firm that it is not a debate or open to discussion. Be prepared with and share any options/support/resources as applicable. Provide as much helpful information as possible. Be empathetic to what the person is going through. Assuming that it is not for cause, let the person know that, and whether you will be willing to provide them a positive reference for another position.

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    Say we no longer need your service here's two weeks severance pay.

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    direct and to their face

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    Yes ... explain, have proof, be kind. HOW you say the words to fire someone is always paramount. Be nice. Be kind....unless, of course, it's a hostile situation.

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    Absolutely. The "best" way is to ensure that you have set expectations, provided adequate feedback and performance reviews. If YOU DO YOUR JOB RIGHT, the poor performer should end up firing themselves. YOU MUST DO YOUR JOB RIGHT FIRST. Once this has been done, actually firing someone is trivial. Set the expectations, provide the feedback. It is then very easy to sit down and say: "Employee, we have discussed the expectations, we have discussed your performance. I don't see action that warrants a change in performance, therefore you leave me no choice but to let you go."

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    Respectfully and privately.

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    Follow the company script/ process to stay within company guidelines.

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    Difficult situation made a little easier when done with compassion.

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    Two things: make sure to explain the reason(s) why, and give severance pay to offset the shock factor.

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    Be transparent and honest.

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    With grace. Never in anger. With notice when possible without compromising security. With recommendations for their next engagement.

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    First make sure they are not recoverable. Is firing them just easier than helping them? Are they not worth the effort? I believe that people matter and any effort you put into them can pay big dividends if the problems can be worked through. If helping them does not work, you just need to clearly document their shortcomings and your efforts to remedy the issues. After that you will just need to walk them to the door.

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    Yeah explain that the quality of ..their work based on standards aren't meeting the criterion. You have " x " amount of days, we have to let you go!

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    Yes, you be polite and you do not reprimand them, they no longer work for you or your company. You simply tell them why and then thank them for their service.

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    no there is not, but never fire on a Friday.

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    If the job is not a 'fit,'it is a disservice to the employee as well as the company. Help in the process of identifying an alternative role that plays to the employees strengths and work towards an alternative graceful exit.

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    Give him a golden parachute before throwing him out of a plane!